Sowin' Seeds Child Care

At first what seemed like an absolute wonderful daycare turned into a nightmare! I had several friends warn me about sowin' seeds explain that as soon as I stopped letting them into my personal life and what was going on far beyond just my children that dhs would be contacted and I would end up going through a child abuse investegation. However I wasnt just gonna go off hear say because it may have been said out of spite for whatever reason. My children seemed to be happy and enjoy being there and were always clean and in new diapers never an issue until the day I got a very rude and inappropriate comment from the owner. I had explained that we might be moving in with a friend of mine who god forbid be a man and that it might make things a littke harder to do if I was to get moved over to the town i would be living in and it ended up falling through and us not moving and the owners comment to me was that 'i needed to stop worry about men and just be happy with my kids' which was way beyond the reason of moving and roommating with him and his girlfriend at the time mind you. Yes it upset me and yes I did respond with 'it has nothing to do with men and I am not worried about men at all' and I said it in a hateful tone at the time because who wouldnt be upset and mad at someone making assumptions and making you look like one of those moms. After that day I never said another word to any of them about anything other then the basics of my children. I noticed that when i stopped letting them know so much that information of how my kids behaved and how they did got less and less. Then one day i got a visit from a child wellfare service lady who eneded up going to my grandmas instead of my apartment which was odd but i knew when my grandmother had told me what why and who would have called. I never said a thing to the daycare not even as much as hello and goodbye. They stopped telling me that my kids needs play clothes or diapers or wipes. Then my daughter started coming home with sand all in her hair unclean and her diaper soiled. My son supposedly for an unknown reason started throwing tantrums at the daycare throwing his head back and what not and when I would go to his class to get him he would be in the highchair with the other kids screaming as if he was hurt. My daughter started misbehaving more and more and getting completely out of control sometimes to the point I had to give up and let it roll once or twice. Then after the investigation; which I told the lady her self issues ive had at the daycare and that she was more then welcomed to go to any room in my house and open any door or cabinet she wanted; the children started being happy again... Before I had pulled my kids from sowin' seeds I got yet another very rude and unkind comment from the owner herself yet again. "So whens the baby due?" To which i flabbergastedly replied "excuse me?!" She asked yet again laughing this time the same question and I replied "im not pregnant and that is so rude to assume and just ask someone that with out being kind about it and its not funny I want to know who the heck told you i was pregnant!" She never would tell me and just kept laughing lightly like it was just some big joke to her. I gather my daughter and walked away but I had half a mind to lose my cool. The next morning i asked the morning workers who was going around saying i was pregnant and the swore they never heard anyone say i was and asked who had said something to me and I told then that the owner had and explained it doesnt matter if i was or was not pregnant it was not her place to say anything that it was mine. I was extremely hacked off at the owner. Durning the 4 months my children attended there one of their workers who was a lovely lady had told me when me and the daycare was on good terms that she moved to my sons 1 year old and unders class because she couldnt handle the class my daughter (2 years old) was in due to seeing the teachers let the kids hit and kick eachother and hit and kick the teachers themselves. [to be continued]